{"id":17762,"date":"2019-10-10T11:50:30","date_gmt":"2019-10-10T09:50:30","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.addkenmerken.net\/?p=17762"},"modified":"2019-10-14T12:49:46","modified_gmt":"2019-10-14T10:49:46","slug":"live-or-be-lived","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.addkenmerken.net\/en\/leven-of-geleefd-worden\/","title":{"rendered":"Live or be lived... What do you do?"},"content":{"rendered":"<aside class=\"mashsb-container mashsb-main mashsb-stretched\"><div class=\"mashsb-box\"><div class=\"mashsb-count mash-large\" style=\"float:left\"><div class=\"counts mashsbcount\">166<\/div><span class=\"mashsb-sharetext\">shared<\/span><\/div><div class=\"mashsb-buttons\"><a class=\"mashicon-facebook mash-large mash-center mashsb-noshadow\" href=\"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/sharer.php?u=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.addkenmerken.net%2Fen%2Fleven-of-geleefd-worden%2F%3Futm_source%3Dsharebuttons%26utm_medium%3Dfacebook%26utm_campaign%3Dmashshare\" target=\"_top\" rel=\"nofollow\"><span class=\"icon\"><\/span><span class=\"text\">Share<\/span><\/a><a class=\"mashicon-twitter mash-large mash-center mashsb-noshadow\" href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/intent\/tweet?text=&amp;url=https:\/\/www.addkenmerken.net\/en\/?p=17762&amp;via=krachtvanADHD\" target=\"_top\" rel=\"nofollow\"><span class=\"icon\"><\/span><span class=\"text\">Tweet<\/span><\/a><div class=\"onoffswitch2 mash-large mashsb-noshadow\" style=\"display:none\"><\/div><\/div>\n            <\/div>\n                <div style=\"clear:both\"><\/div><\/aside>\n            <!-- Share buttons by mashshare.net - Version: 4.0.47-->\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Is it really that important what the world thinks of you?<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>A friend of mine forwarded me this video. It did come in for a moment, because how much this message hits the nail on the head. I don't think any person on earth could disagree with it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>It is a fine reflection of how vulnerable we all are. How easily we are influenced. We so want to be loved and do good in the eyes of others. But in the end, what does that really get you? Perhaps the opposite of what you actually desire.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Live your life and do what feels right for you. Above all, don't just do what people expect of you and certainly don't try to be loved by everyone. That is an endless battle you can never win. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Keep this to yourself... What do you prefer to look back on on your last day? A life others wanted you to live or what you wanted to live?<\/p>\n\n\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-embed-youtube wp-block-embed is-type-video is-provider-youtube wp-embed-aspect-16-9 wp-has-aspect-ratio\"><div class=\"wp-block-embed__wrapper\">\n<iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"The Last Thought You&#039;ll Ever Have\" width=\"720\" height=\"405\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/CEpFVz5vVVM?feature=oembed\" frameborder=\"0\" allow=\"accelerometer; autoplay; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe>\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n\n\n<p>Want to comment on the video? Then especially let us hear from you in the comments below...<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Is it really that important what the world thinks of you? A friend of mine forwarded me this video. 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