{"id":7961,"date":"2014-01-15T14:35:23","date_gmt":"2014-01-15T13:35:23","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.addkenmerken.net\/?p=7961"},"modified":"2019-10-02T16:12:38","modified_gmt":"2019-10-02T14:12:38","slug":"hanneka-and-her-son-with-add","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.addkenmerken.net\/en\/hanneka-en-haar-zoontje-met-add\/","title":{"rendered":"Hanneka and her infant son with ADD"},"content":{"rendered":"<aside class=\"mashsb-container mashsb-main mashsb-stretched\"><div class=\"mashsb-box\"><div class=\"mashsb-count mash-large\" style=\"float:left\"><div class=\"counts mashsbcount\">82<\/div><span class=\"mashsb-sharetext\">shared<\/span><\/div><div class=\"mashsb-buttons\"><a class=\"mashicon-facebook mash-large mash-center mashsb-noshadow\" href=\"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/sharer.php?u=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.addkenmerken.net%2Fen%2Fhanneka-en-haar-zoontje-met-add%2F%3Futm_source%3Dsharebuttons%26utm_medium%3Dfacebook%26utm_campaign%3Dmashshare\" target=\"_top\" rel=\"nofollow\"><span class=\"icon\"><\/span><span class=\"text\">Share<\/span><\/a><a class=\"mashicon-twitter mash-large mash-center mashsb-noshadow\" href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/intent\/tweet?text=&amp;url=https:\/\/www.addkenmerken.net\/en\/?p=7961&amp;via=krachtvanADHD\" target=\"_top\" rel=\"nofollow\"><span class=\"icon\"><\/span><span class=\"text\">Tweet<\/span><\/a><div class=\"onoffswitch2 mash-large mashsb-noshadow\" style=\"display:none\"><\/div><\/div>\n            <\/div>\n                <div style=\"clear:both\"><\/div><\/aside>\n            <!-- Share buttons by mashshare.net - Version: 4.0.47--><p><em>Received story from Hanneke about her infant son with ADD<\/em><\/p>\n<h2>The likes and dislikes of ADD<\/h2>\n<p>Hi Jochem,<\/p>\n<p>Firstly, I think it's great that you have set up this site, clear explanations and everything is well articulated and I also benefit a lot from the tips.<\/p>\n<figure id=\"attachment_14656\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-14656\" style=\"width: 278px\" class=\"wp-caption alignright\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"wp-image-14656\" src=\"https:\/\/www.addkenmerken.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/01\/Kinderen-met-ADD.jpg\" alt=\"ADD children\" width=\"278\" height=\"187\" title=\"\"><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-14656\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Illustrative photo<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>I myself am not diagnosed with <a title=\"ADD\" href=\"https:\/\/www.addkenmerken.net\/en\/add-symptoms\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener \">ADD<\/a> but my 10-year-old son did.<\/p>\n<p>I knew very quickly that he is a special case as a small child he was sometimes quite contradictory very exhausting but also beautiful things he did or said.<\/p>\n<p>When we moved in 2010 and the change proved to be quite intense for him and he was suddenly bullied at school and started performing very poorly, I thought and now I want to know what is wrong with him.<\/p>\n<p>First to a psychologist but he didn't like that and said he didn't understand what he could gain from that. No indeed this did not work.<\/p>\n<p>His master told me about ADD and testing it well anyway and indeed it was ADD.<\/p>\n<p>I read a lot about it and since a month we have been working on <a title=\"LTO3\" href=\"https:\/\/www.addkenmerken.net\/en\/lto3\/\">lto3<\/a> I am very much against medication so I put that off as long as possible.<\/p>\n<p>It is not that he is unruly.<\/p>\n<p>You just have to have a lot of patience with him that is not easy for me as a mum especially since I have two sons who also demand attention of course.<\/p>\n<p>I always try to make him see that he is normal and that he just has something special in his possession he can see everything just a bit better just a bit more in a song or see just a bit more in the woods or come out so funny<\/p>\n<p>It is not always easy you can see he is busy in his head often scratches his hands open and such a wound usually stays open several more times for weeks and <a href=\"https:\/\/www.addkenmerken.net\/en\/8-tips-for-better-sleep-with-add-adhd\/\">sleep<\/a> is always difficult I often make him listen to spa music when he goes to sleep also he has to have something in his hands he usually has a tangle or a stress ball in his hands<\/p>\n<p>I hope I am doing well and that later he can develop himself well in this world.<\/p>\n<p>Regards Hanneke<\/p>\n<p>Want to respond to Hanneke's article? Be sure to let us hear from you in the comments below....<\/p>\n\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-uagb-marketing-button uagb-marketing-btn__outer-wrap uagb-marketing-btn__align-center uagb-marketing-btn__align-text-center uagb-marketing-btn__icon-before\" id=\"uagb-marketing-btn-bc07d9fd-afab-465d-bd82-96e12407b527\"><div class=\"uagb-marketing-btn__wrap\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.addkenmerken.net\/en\/category\/life-stories\/\" class=\"uagb-marketing-btn__link\" target=\"\" rel=\"noopener \"><div class=\"uagb-marketing-btn__title-wrap\"><h6 class=\"uagb-marketing-btn__title\">View all submitted life stories here<\/h6><\/div><div class=\"uagb-marketing-btn__prefix-wrap\"><p class=\"uagb-marketing-btn__prefix\"><\/p><\/div><\/a><\/div><\/div>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Received story from Hanneke about her son with ADD The funny and not-so-nice sides of ADD Hi Jochem, First of all, I think it's great...<\/p>","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":14656,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"_kad_post_classname":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[1148,1131,1506,552],"tags":[5,695],"class_list":["post-7961","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-kinderen-met-addadhd","category-add","category-add-adhd","category-levensverhalen","tag-add","tag-moeder"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.addkenmerken.net\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7961","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.addkenmerken.net\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.addkenmerken.net\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.addkenmerken.net\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.addkenmerken.net\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=7961"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.addkenmerken.net\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7961\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.addkenmerken.net\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/14656"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.addkenmerken.net\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=7961"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.addkenmerken.net\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=7961"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.addkenmerken.net\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=7961"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}