{"id":884,"date":"2014-02-14T20:03:43","date_gmt":"2014-02-14T19:03:43","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.addkenmerken.net\/blog\/?p=884"},"modified":"2019-08-21T17:48:03","modified_gmt":"2019-08-21T15:48:03","slug":"my-son-with-dyslexia","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.addkenmerken.net\/en\/mijn-zoon-met-dyslexie\/","title":{"rendered":"Family trait? My son with dyslexia, ODD and ADHD"},"content":{"rendered":"<aside class=\"mashsb-container mashsb-main mashsb-stretched\"><div class=\"mashsb-box\"><div class=\"mashsb-buttons\"><a class=\"mashicon-facebook mash-large mash-center mashsb-noshadow\" href=\"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/sharer.php?u=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.addkenmerken.net%2Fen%2Fmijn-zoon-met-dyslexie%2F%3Futm_source%3Dsharebuttons%26utm_medium%3Dfacebook%26utm_campaign%3Dmashshare\" target=\"_top\" rel=\"nofollow\"><span class=\"icon\"><\/span><span class=\"text\">Share<\/span><\/a><a class=\"mashicon-twitter mash-large mash-center mashsb-noshadow\" href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/intent\/tweet?text=&amp;url=https:\/\/www.addkenmerken.net\/en\/?p=884&amp;via=krachtvanADHD\" target=\"_top\" rel=\"nofollow\"><span class=\"icon\"><\/span><span class=\"text\">Tweet<\/span><\/a><div class=\"onoffswitch2 mash-large mashsb-noshadow\" style=\"display:none\"><\/div><\/div>\n            <\/div>\n                <div style=\"clear:both\"><\/div><\/aside>\n            <!-- Share buttons by mashshare.net - Version: 4.0.47--><h2>&#8220;Mam, ik ga je voorlezen\u201d<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignright wp-image-15381\" src=\"https:\/\/www.addkenmerken.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/02\/Dyslexie-1.jpg\" alt=\"Dyslexia\" width=\"333\" height=\"222\" title=\"\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.addkenmerken.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/02\/Dyslexie-1.jpg 360w, https:\/\/www.addkenmerken.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/02\/Dyslexie-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.addkenmerken.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/02\/Dyslexie-1-272x182.jpg 272w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 333px) 100vw, 333px\">Am I hearing this correctly? My super <a title=\"Power of dyslexia - Celebrities with dyslexia\" href=\"https:\/\/www.addkenmerken.net\/en\/power-of-dyslexia\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener \">dyslexic<\/a> son with whom I struggle every day to practise reading, spelling and flashing is going to read to me by himself?<\/p>\n<p>\u201cOh schat graag\u201d zeg ik. Want ook ik vind het heerlijk om voorgelezen te worden. Vroeger al als kind zat ik dicht tegen mijn opa\u2019s zachte buik aan en luisterde naar zijn warme stem die een sprookje van Grimm voorlas. Waanzinnige verhalen maakte hij ervan. Natuurlijk wist ik dat hij aan de verhalen zijn eigen dingen toevoegde maar dat maakte mij niets uit. Ik kon er zalig op wegdromen.<\/p>\n<p>Mijn zoon pakt een boek over ridders. Want de Middeleeuwen hebben zijn voorkeur. Elk beetje informatie wat hij daarover hoort of ziet neemt hij op als een spons. Hetzelfde met dieren en dan wel de roofdieren. Hij kruipt tegen me aan en slaat het boek open en begint een prachtig verhaal. Ik luister en geniet. Een prachtig verhaal met alles erop en eraan. Mijn verbazing neemt hand over hand toe. Is dit mijn zoon? Die dagelijks roept: &#8220;Maham! Ik kan het niet! Mijn hersens spelen spelletjes met me. Elke letter die ik wil lezen rent steeds weg!\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cKlaar!\u201d sluit hij het verhaal af.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cPrachtig, jongen. Dank je wel.\u201d, zeg ik.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cNu hoef ik vanavond niet te lezen, he? Ik heb nu al gelezen.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cNa dit super verhaal heb jij vanavond lees-vrij.\u201d, zeg ik trots.<\/p>\n<p>Hij springt van de bank, geeft me een kus, knuffelt de hond, gilt: \u201cMam! Er zit een koolmees in ons vogelhuis!\u201d klopt op de ramen en rent schreeuwend naar boven.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cIk ga met de Playmobil ridders spelen!\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Also this is my son, 100% <a title=\"ADHD\" href=\"https:\/\/www.addkenmerken.net\/en\/characteristics-of-adhd\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow noopener \">ADHD<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>Astonished, I am left. Have I just been read to in a special way? Could he have suddenly seen the light? Has he found a way to get his brain to stop playing those games? I grab the book and look at the story.<\/p>\n<p>Oh yes, broadly speaking, he just read me this story but I can't find that dragon in it, nor that huge castle with torches. The valiant knight has no squire and the king did not have anyone beheaded. Actually, the story he read out is nicer than the one in the book.<\/p>\n<p>I smile, thinking of my grandfather.... Family trait?<\/p>\n<p>Liesbeth<\/p>\n<p><i>Owner of visual thinking coach LIES, teacher and mother of a son with ADHD\/ODD and dyslexia<\/i><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\"Mum, I'm going to read to you\" Am I hearing that right? 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